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[quote=Anonymous]Oh OP, just read your update - so sorry.  You deserve SO MUCH better than what he's able to give you.  WHEN (not if) he attempts to contact you again and be apologetic, and gain your sympathy (because you are a caring person), hold strong.  Go no contact.  I know it hurts like hell, and how hard it is to break it off with someone you cared so much about.  It is exponentially harder when that person has also stripped you of your self-esteem, self worth, and identity.

Unfortunately, it's going to take a long time to recover - to not only mourn the loss of the relationship, but to also rebuild your identity and self-worth that was lost.  Give the gift of time, therapy, and self-care to yourself.  You will become strong again, it will just take time.

Please hear this - how he saw you - that is not you.  It's some distorted view he had to make you into, to cope with his own deep insecurities and flaws.  How he treated you, that also does not reflect on the real you.  [/quote]

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