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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do not threaten divorce. I would begin to despise a spouse that resorted to threats to get their way.

I believe she cares for you and probably loves you, just not the way you would like. She may not be attracted physically so counseling won't fix that.

I don't think she can change that OP. You will have to learn to live with it, or divorce at some point.  Unfortunately when I look around at 2nd marriages they're usually worse. Many got divorced and added new and different problems. [/quote]

I agree with this. You said she’s never been the warm and fuzzy type. I’m betting she settled for a decent man that was a good provider rather then someone that blew her socks off physically.  Personally I spent yrs in relationships with  men that I was passionately crazy about but there seemed to always be a price to pay with these types, (Cheating, abusive, no money etc). I finally married a decent non cheater great provider but very little physical connection,  which of course only gets worse with time .  I’m not happy with our physical life but you can’t have everything. I always think I can go back to the men that turn me on but also back to the constant stress and wondering where they are and who they’re with, not to mention the stress of how we’re going to pay the bills.  [/quote]

^^ OP let me translate this for you.
1) RedPill dogma has been 100% validated.
2) It will continue to get worse.
3) There is nothing you can do about it.
4) You must grow content with platonic love.

Are you now understanding the situation?[/quote]

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