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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was one of the posters with a son and daughter that mentioned statutory rape and really don’t care if it’s technically legal or not. I was thinking of DH and my reaction if we found out our teen daughter had her older BF sleep over when we were gone. Sure, maybe it wouldn’t be illegal but we’d try to make his life hell and hers. That’s what we’d be warning our son about. Angry parents.

I don’t know what we would do in your situation but I admire how calm you are being. I’m following for advice if we end up in a similar situation someday. [/quote]

You can make your daughter’s life hell if you wish.  But if you tried to make his hell for an entirely legal act, you would be the one facing charges for harassment.[/quote]

LOL. Like anyone is going to have one ounce of sympathy for the boyfriend when the girl's parents don't want their teenage daughter's older boyfriend sleeping over and having sex with her while they are out of town. You are out of your mind. [/quote]

The girls parents should not leave a teenage girl home alone.[/quote]

Read the original post - they didn't - GF was supposed to stay with friends:

[quote]Am I wrong for thinking it’s inappropriate for him to spend the night with his gf (just turned 16) knowing her parents are out of town and would definitely not approve?
I just can’t get through to him. Now I inadvertently find out his plan to deceive us by leaving his phone with a friend and pretending to spend the night there while really staying at his gf’s.

How do I approach this? He asked me if he could spend the night with her while her parents are out of town because she is scared to be alone. I said it was her parents’ responsibility to handle that not her 17 year old bf. i know that her parents planned that she spend the nights they are away with a friend and I know her parents do not approve but he is trying to convince me that they don’t care. I told him that if they tell me it is ok then I will think about it.[/quote][/quote]

It seems to me that what should have happened is OP pick up the phone last week and talk to GF's parents to say "I want to make sure we are on the same page about this ..." and find out for sure that the plan was.  OP was far too reliant on info from her son.  Going forward, that can't happen since he has proven himself to be a liar.  OP seems a little afraid of any sort of confrontation with son or others.  Unfortunately as the parent of teenagers, you need to get over that and just deal[/quote]

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