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[quote=Anonymous]In a perfect world, you tell her and let the chips fall where they may. But you have: 1) a dishonest MIL who I'm sure has feelings about SIL pushing all her beliefs on everyone else and this is her passive aggressive way of dealing with it. 2) a SIL who sounds very militant and would go scorched earth if she found out 3) a BIL who is being dishonest about who he genuinely is and what his beliefs and desires for his lifestyle choices I feel like you've done what you can with the situation you are in. I would work on MIL behind the scenes to stop doing it. Phrase it like "if SIL ever came into the kitchen and saw what I saw or tasted it in the food, you know she would blow everything up. You may never see BIL and would rarely see their kids (or future kids). Is the possibility of never seeing your grandkids worth it?" [/quote]
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