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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s achingly lonely at times. Other times it’s just perfect. Sex is easy to find, some of it is great sex. That’s fun.

At the end of the day though no one is calling me a Cu*t in drunken rages in front of our three precious kids, I’m making a shit ton of money and I’ve learned that loneliness is hardly the worst fate. I’ve had given up much more to get away from the rageaholic drunk he became. My kids are happier and at peace. They’re with me most of the time- and when they’re with their dad it’s a good break for me. I travel a lot. Lots of yoga. I’ve withdrawn from my friends- losing them in the grief and horror of the divorce was just too painful and I haven’t really gone back to being the social butterfly o was. Not now.

The hardest thing is that I have lost all faith in the words of a new lover. I don’t believe in big, true love anymore- losing that is sad but okay. [/quote]

Divorcing over one of the three "A's"--addiction, adultery or abuse is understandable.  If your ex husband is a hard core alcoholic I'd have concern about the kids with their Dad.  Does Dad drive the kids? You might consider alateen for the kids.  [/quote]

I’m not sure what is broken in you that you find joy from hurting the people who come on here and bravely offer their experiences.

Thank you for trying to play up my fears and insecurities. Thanks for trying to point out and grind my face in my greatest fear. When their drunk dad lived with us I also could not guarantee what state he was in- you think I can control it now? You think I haven’t woken up sweaty with fear and have had many talks with my kids- that’s after spending $200,000 on divorce and a PRE - successfully as I have physical custody. Abuse and addiction are horrible, heaping on that abuse by cutting down and planting insecurity shows me you’re no different than him - you just aren’t drunk. [/quote]

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