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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know if OP is still reading, but take it from someone who has been there.

You are in a very natural first stage of finding out your partner has been unfaithful - the pleading and the "pick me" dance. You may tell yourself you are just trying to keep the family together, but you are also afraid of what all of this will mean, and trying to find a way for this not to destroy what you have.

Spoiler alert: What you have was spoiled the day your spouse decided to lean into an office flirtation rather than leaning out.

Everything else? That's just the aftermath.

I agree with PPs. Read ChumpLady. Call a lawyer. Get a therapist. Capitalize on this period while your wife still has her "affair brain" on to get everything you can. [/quote]

Use her affair brain to negotiate a favorable deal. Find a lawyer who gets this. You will need tough love. It won’t be easy in your current state. I wish I listened to a few friends who wanted me to be more clear eyed. [/quote]

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