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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I could never trust again if I had been lied to by my spouse for three years.

A three month fling? I might get past it. 3 years is an intense, ongoing and intentional relationship. Lots of calculated decisions and lies

Plus, I'd never get over feeling like I was not his top.choice.

While I commend ops commitment to keeping his family intact, it can't work if she's not 1000% committed. [/quote]

In three years - maybe even much less - she likely has developed much stronger loyalties to the AP than the husband. How long did it take from meeting her to getting married?  These two have a very strong, perhaps stronger, relationship than the technically married couple. [/quote]

Yep.  She and the AP have bonded together over the past few years while sharing the secret of their affair and most likely badmouthing their spouses to each other.

In the meantime the cheated on spouses were walking around not being able to shake the feeling that something was up.  Turns out, the spouses were the proverbial 3rd wheels in their own marriages.  Nice.[/quote]

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