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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Time for an update, OP![/b]  How were the holidays?[/quote]

OP here and I’m amazed that after three or so months anyone would care! Everything is fine and the holidays were great and we spent a good deal of time together and I met a lot of his family and they were all very nice to me. His in laws know about me but I haven’t met them given they live far away but he said they just want him and the children to be happy and I guess that’s the best I can hope for. The children and I have a very good and comfortable relationship to the point where I just do one on one things with them like clothes shopping which their Dad is pretty clueless about. We are going on spring break together which I was hesitant about for obvious reasons but the children convinced me it would be fun. Who could argue with that? I think if that trip goes well we’ll really think about the future but I’m just taking it as it comes but I’m pretty crazy about all of them. [/quote]

I'm the PP asking for an update.  OF COURSE we care!  Yours is one of those memorable post that many of us have invested in!  It's so refreshing (even if it doesn't ultimately work out) to have a 'hopeful' situation!  I'm so very glad you provided the update and can't wait to hear how spring break went!  What a big step!  And the kids convinced you it would be fun!  How exciting!  Keep us posted!

And ignore the naysayers.[/quote]

Happy for you OP. You sound very grounded and it sounds like you have found a wonderful family. As far as those issuing warnings and the naysayers, they are scared. Remember the words of Andy Dufresne, "Get busy living or get busy dying!" looks like OP chose living.[/quote]

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