Reply to First X-Mas as blended family off to terrible start

Forum Index » Family Relationships

Reply to "First X-Mas as blended family off to terrible start"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]29 is old enough to be cordial, but if I were one of the adult kids in this situation...it’s hard to even begin to articulate how awful it would be to see your dad start over with a new wife and new baby. You made the choice to have this complicated family dynamic. The adult kids did not choose to lose their family of origin.[/quote]

This.  As a 29 year old, reading this makes me want to cry.  I can’t imagine losing my mother and then having my dad start a new family.[/quote]

The mother in this case has been dead for many years. It's a bit selfish of you to go on building your life but expect dad to stay unattached forever.  It's not like you're there to keep him company![/quote]

The parents were already divorced before the mom died.

But anyway, there is a difference between getting remarried and getting remarried and having a new kud a generation younger than an existing set.[/quote]

This.  I'm the 29 year old PP.  I wouldn't expect my father to remain single forever and I'd like to think I'd welcome a new partner into the family...but another baby three decades younger than me would be so hard.  [/quote]
Why?
No one is asking you to raise him/her[/quote]

omg crazy person
so if your father ran around in a gorilla suit you would be fine with it because he is not asking you to dry clean it...[/quote]
Dumbass if you think deciding to make a life with someone is equivalent to warring a costume your ass is crazier than the dude in the gorilla suit.[/quote]

having a toddler with a new wife while collecting social security is actually more stupid than running around in a gorilla suit. this topic is clearly too personal for you to be able to think straight.[/quote]
Heffa who says he is collection social security. Who are you to decide what is the best decision for him and his life??
You do  realize that people make sound judgment calls and quality decisions about their lives that just happened to differ from the ones that makes sense for your life ?[/quote]

there are many things in life (e.g. doing drugs, gambling, and yes, starting a new family with a new baby very late in life) that are stupid regardless of who you are.[/quote]
You are truly pitiful
[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics