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[quote=Anonymous]Woman here and team OP. Seriously, OP specifically stated that DW chose to move only weeks into their relationship! He was tentative and let her know how he felt. Let’s switch it up, OP is a woman and some guy she’s  dating decides to move to her neck of the woods a few weeks in. Not sure about you all but I’d be holy hell man, snap out of it! But, I’m a frequent poster who tends to side with the guys because that’s generally how I think. Once OP sold his biz and moved onto a more free floating biz, she seized the opportunity to suggest adios to the city. Women can be very patient and calculating. Not quite sure how or why things led to marriage but OP doesn’t seem like the wretch you’re all making him out to be. I have BTDT with my DH. Moved to his city very reluctantly because I was pregnant (calm down...we were already married for 2 years), but I kept my place in another city while married. It was pure bliss! Lived in DH city for 5 years. Wanted a change before DS started school. We built a home in a very small yet cosmopolitan, East Coast hamlet. And we’re done! 3 more years until DS is off to college. Great thing is we stayed connected to DS’s birth city and he is more connected there than here. Selling house, getting small rental here and same in DH city, where hopefully DS will attend college. OP downsize in your city and a place to accommodate your fam either in DW small town or the in between larger town. At some point when kids are older, you’ll both love the freedom to come and go between homes. Of course this is all pending financial means to do it. Marriage was absolutely bliss when we weren’t together all the time. Maybe you give her a time line that meets your needs with you new biz and her willingness. Decide where you both prefer kids to attend school and that’s home base. The other is the retreat to be near her fam or yours.

P.S. Any buyers interested in a 9 year new, pristine, beautifully built  “green” home, 4200sf plus separate art studio and connected guest cottage...hit me up over the next few years lol. Mama’s gotta pay for college. I am not a realtor. [/quote]

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