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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t mean to sound harsh but sounds like the wife laid out a few nice traps for the OP. OP fell for it originally and is about to really fall for it now by moving to some rural area where he knows no one. [/quote]

Good grief.  This wasn't a ONS where this woman got Op drunk in a purposeful attempt to seduce him and get pregnant by him.  She knew Op for years, they had a friendship that led to something more.  Then they got married with eyes wide open about each other.  Nobody tricked anyone.  Get over that notion.

Op told her point blank that he wouldn't consider moving to her hometown.  She decided to stick with him in spite of that.  She told Op that she wanted to marry and become a SAHM - Op agreed to that. Now that they have 3 kids and she has her hands full she would love to be closer to her family and friends.[/quote]

Thank you for clearly stating the facts. There was indeed no traps set, and no bait-and-switch.

Now it's just a matter of working together to find a compromise we're both happy with. - OP[/quote]

Thank you for clarifying this!  I'm sorry, I didn't see that you had come back to do that.  Still Team Op!

I think that couples counseling is a good start for you two.  Having 3 young ones is a lot of fun but also a lot of stress on a marriage.  Hang in there, Op![/quote]

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