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[quote=Anonymous]I can only eyeroll at OP. I would say you take the toddler to the wedding and have fun figuring all that out since you think it won’t be a problem. But if you do take the toddler please let us know how that all goes. But as a PP pointed out, the wedding seems like it’s 3 days before Christmas. That’s absurd to have you and the toddler gone on Christmas. If it’s the week before Christmas, you and toddler go to the wedding for The Weekend and fly home. If your parents want to see the baby then they can fly out during Christmas and you guys.

Part of being a parent is advocating for your child. You are not doing that by expecting your 6 week old child to get on a plane in the middle of flu season. That’s just irresponsible parenting. My sister had a big graduation ceremony across the country. My DS was 6 weeks at the time of the graduation. I wanted to go, and I was on the fence about going. My DH stepped up and was a RESPONSIBLE parent who advocated for his child and said “you shouldn’t take DS on the plane that young when he hasn’t had his vaccines”.

Be a brother and go to the wedding. Have fun, drink be merry. 
Be a parent and advocate for your child and tell your family it just isn’t safe for the baby to go. 
Be a husband and tell your family your wife won’t be up for a big flight and big ceremonies with lots of people.

Go apologize to your wife, you are clearly in the wrong here. [/quote]

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