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[quote=Anonymous]What exactly is the OP sister looking for from this? She already has a family. She has her adoptive parents and sibling(s). The birth family doesn't want to know her. Just because she's a blood relative means diddly squat. I have blood relatives I haven't seen in decades and have no desire to see, despite that there is no family animosity whatsoever. The OP's sister probably has this fantasy of finding an entire loving family waiting for her after all these years and embracing her warmly and inviting her to family dinners and holidays and becoming best friends. The reality: no, it ain't happening. And based on their reaction, her presence in that family is very unwelcome and most likely because of unpleasant circumstances surrounding the pregnancy. She will never be one of them. End of story. She needs to get on with life and celebrate her real family, which are her adoptive parents and siblings. [/quote]
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