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[quote=Anonymous]This is generally the 1st step towards a marital disaster.   It's called looking for a fight.

You HHI is 600K, you have 2 healthy children, you are 2 healthy adults, you have food, shelter, money for a cleaning person, vacations... Live in a safe neighborhood with great schools and have sex every.single.week.

If you go looking for problems you will find one ,it's the magical secret of life, nothing is perfect, if you look hard enough for a blemish you will find it. If you pick at it, it will grow.

You let your mind walk down the imaginary path of "hey I'm not happy" AND "I need to blame somebody else" AND "the closest target is my spouse".

You could look at your life with gratefullness or You can not pick it, look for a problem (where there really is not one), build discontent in your brain and muster up some resentment. Then, once You have primed the foundation to be a little shaky, look elsewhere for contentment. When all along you had it, right in front of your eyes, you just refused to see it.

Then, when you F it all up, you say, hey we had problems all along.... It was inevitable because my spouse didn't make me happy.

Tread lightly young man, you are playing with fire and the whole forest could go up in flames and leave your little kids charred.

The answer lies inside you not outward. Change your perspective.[/quote]

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