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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Am one of them. Think nothing of it. Wonder a little about the women who change their names, though.[/quote]

Easy there.  You do you, I'll do me.  Ok?

I changed my name.  [b]I knew my kids would get my DH's last name,[/b]  and I wanted to share a last name with them. So I changed my name.  Not a big deal to me.

My sister did not change her name.  My SIL (brother's wife) did not change her name.  I completely support their decisions and don't think they are any less committed to their husbands because of it.  But neither of them share a last name with their children, which was important to me.  They both had better/more established careers with their maiden names, so I think it was trade off that made sense for them.

To each their own.  The best part about living now is being able to CHOOSE.  [/quote]

Not the PP, but another woman who kept her name.

I think the bolded part is what many of us have a problem with. Why did you know that your kids would get your DH's last name? I was the opposite. I knew that our kids would get MY name, whatever I decided that to be.

If DH wanted to change his name to have the same name as our children, that would have been fine with me. He decided not to do so, which was also fine.

Not sure why or how women grow and deliver babies, generally do by far the lion's share of child rearing (statistically speaking), and yet say things like "I knew my kids would get DH's name".[/quote]

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