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[quote=Anonymous]OP, good luck.  And also, even if what you see is harmless, I think it's time for counseling because she is really being disrespectful and the whole thing is undermining the marriage.  Even if it's nothing, like you said, no "happy VD"...she told you to tell the KIDS happy Valentine's Day? What about you?

Anyways I've been married 20 years (good marriage), and early in the marriage, my DH used to go radio silent on me when he traveled.  This was pre-cell-phone, but also, I never got the details on what hotel, etc.  This, I believe, was totally due to him rushing around and not thinking about it--it does take a few years to recognize all the aspects of being a couple vs. being solo.   Anyways one time I ended up miscarrying and had no idea where he was; I had to leave a teary voicemail on his work phone.  ugh.  For all I know, his secretary listened to it (back then, often secretaries took the voicemails and then the person called into the office for the secretary to tell the messages)

After he got back, we sat down and really worked through how important it was to me to know where he was.  He'd forget at times but I would not get mad, because it wasn't a habit yet--I'm just remind him.  Nowadays he's always emailing me his itinerary.[/quote]

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