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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH has a small gut, he is 190 lbs and 5'10". It doesn't bother me, but I'm also 135 lbs and 5'2" so I have no room to judge. The only turn off is when attempts to sucker me into sex without foreplay. Don't be an ass, attempt to get me in the mood: I was just reading a book about the Civil War, dammit. [/quote]

+1000

Why is that so hard for men to get? [/quote]

I have no problem with the idea that I have to get her in the mood. I enjoy foreplay a lot. The problem comes when she doesn't want to let me get her in the mood. First, I have to get her in the mood to be gotten in the mood. And that's just ridiculous. Porn isn't as good, but it's sooo much easier. [/quote]

Then stick with porn. Fine by me.[/quote]

Fine by an anonymous cat lady ... ok. I don't think he wants your approval, but ok.[/quote]

I don't particularly care about her approval, but it does show a mindset about sex that's pretty challenging when it shows up in a marriage. A guy should be a solid partner and, in addition, should recognize that women often take more warming up to enjoy sex. But, at a certain point, if the wife is so indifferent to sex that it falls low on the priority list, even caring husbands who aren't lazy will begin to feel like getting his wife interested in sex is a Sisyphean task that isn't worth the effort. [/quote]

I'm the OP in this specific thread of replies. I am not at all indifferent to sex. It's not low on my priority list. I just take a little longer and a little more care... Otherwise, I will have sex for an hour if he wants. I just don't want him bursting up on me with a boner asking for it right away. Like give me some clues, too, maybe I will want to hop in the shower and lather up with a bunch of lotion, or put on a sexy bra. Then give me like 10 minutes of foreplay and I swear, I'm game for anything.[/quote]

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