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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, I'm shocked at all the comments which blame the mom for working.  How the hell are they suppose to support 3 kids if they don't work and you have no right to judge how many kids they have.  I feel like kids of this age and this "class" are a bit too entitled.  When my child tells me they need something last minute I tell them no.  Learn to plan ahead, I'm not your maid or your nanny.  Even if I do have the time I refuse to do anything last minute and I don't like to buy them stuff even though I do tend to give in.  I grew up poor and I never saw my mom because she worked constantly to put me through private school.  I never questioned why she had to work or asked her for anything other than what was necessary.. and most times not even that.  I knew we just didn't have the money.  To be honest, my kids piss me off sometimes with everything that they have.  They don't know how good they have it and they are not grateful when you give them everything they ask for.  [/quote]

Thr majority of us support 3 kids without having children that have tp beg us to have a family meal and without keepingboir kids in daycare until 630pm. These kids dont need more money and dont need to wven go to target. They need parents who love them and dont treat them like an accessory.

The OP and her husband suck and their kids know it, we know it. I hope with their mountain of money, they are saving for thearapy.

And another thing, i bet when these kids grow up they will have absolutely no attachment to their parents. The OP will grow old all alone, comforted only by their bank account.[/quote]

I don't have an opinion on OP (we don't know enough about her life, IMO), but I see this threat about growing old alone thrown at parents who don't act the way other parents think they should all the time. Have you spent time in nursing homes or spent a lot of time doing elder care? The homes are filled with the parents of children who grew up with the traditional SAHM/WOHP family structure. This idea that raising your kids in one particular structure means that you will or won't be alone is nonsense. Using one particular family structure doesn't guarantee attachment.[/quote]

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