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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]haha I feel the same way OP.

When he gets back, it's mama's turn to relax![/quote]

You don't like sex?[/quote]

PP here. No I don't like sex when I'm exhausted and on edge (which is what it's like for me to be alone with 4 kids for several days and nights and he knows that). I need to be in the mood for sex., which means relaxed. Why should I put out if I am too tired?[/quote]

I think it's all in the way that you reject someone. I think there is a big difference between saying, "honey, I missed you and I love you, but I am exhausted. I am flattered that you want me right now, and I want you too, but if we're going to do it, let's do it right. Let me relax and recharge. Spend some time with the kids, they missed you a lot as well. And when I am rested and relaxed, I will welcome you home!" vs. "f-off, i'm tired and now annoyed that you want me."

Just my two cents.[/quote]

Yep.  The first would be really reasonable and would be fine if honest.  But that's usually not how it goes, becuase the time when you are rested and relaxed will never materialize.  Maybe some folks haven't realized but being an adult is rarely relaxing.  Just saying.....[/quote]

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