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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I know you don't want to hear this, but forgiveness will set you free. Nobody says you have to forget (I don't think there's a chance that's going to happen) however, forgiving them will release you from these all consuming bonds. You're not forgiving them for THEIR sake, you're forgiving them for YOUR sake... and health... and happiness. You've wasted so much time focusing your energy on this, it's time to let go. You've spent 20 years allowing this to consume you... how much time do you think they've spent allowing it to consume them? If your answer is no time at all, then YOU see the only one being affected by this & you've become your own jailer, not them... YOU. "Holding onto anger (or a grudge) is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die" - Buddha [/quote]
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