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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is the current status and relationship with the Mother of your husband's out-of-wedlock child?
Romantic?
Civil?
Drama-filled?
Over[b]?

If the latter, you could legally adopt the child, lay down the law in your house, and move on. [/b]
Otherwise, divorce and move on. 
Lastly, do nothing and buckle up for decades of issues with the other mom, child, your husband, finance, and your actual two children.

What to tell the children?  Nothing. This is too big of a shitty situation, there is nothing good to say whatsoever.  If you or your husband are saying something good, it is spin and a lie. It will bite you in your ass for years to come as your children develop their sense of truth, morals and right from wrong. [/quote]
Don't think you can adopt a child without her parents giving her up first. Why would her mom relinquish custody?[/quote]

Depends if situation. If she's unfit. Also seen it happen where mom was workaholic CIA type. Lost all custody when the dad remarried. was hellish process but he got the daughter. [/quote]

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