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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ PP, these women don't have a heart.  This part of the thread is just disgusting.

I have no pity AT ALL for spoiled, smug idiots who want to villainize this woman who gave up her daughter to what sounds like a rather manipulative man.  FUCK YOU and work on being a little honest about the vulnerabilities in your own marriage, you insecure cows.  [/quote]

LOL! We don't need nor did we ask for your pity. I have a very nice life, thank you.

I DEFINITELY villainize any woman who sleeps with a married man. It is akin in my mind to breaking into another person's house and stealing their belongings.

[b]I really don't understand why people consider this fact at odds with the other fact that the man is also a POS. BOTH people are nasty, selfish, and destructive[/b]. [/quote]

Not PP above.

But the level of POS is entirely different.

If my husband cheated, the other woman will be a non-issue. I entered into an agreement with my husband. He is supposed to be loyal to me. I know him, and I love and trust him. The other woman has no agreement with me, shares no children and life with me. She does not love me, and I do not love her. It is understandable that she could be selfish.,

The husband is a bigger, nastier POS than the thai woman. He is the one who betrayed his wife and his family.  He is accountable to his wife and his child.

[b]The other woman may have betrayed her values, if she had any such values to begin with. Big deal. Values change especially when you are not accountable to anyone.[/b][/quote]

One more thing. What I've bolded is just shocking.

You think a woman who plays a part in breaking up a family has done nothing but betrayed her own values? She didn't play a part in causing harm to the children and wife whatsoever? I couldn't be friends with a person who knowingly tampered with a family.

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The point is we don't have enough information about the other woman. She may be damaged beyond our understanding. She may not have enough respect for the family unit; maybe she has never seen one work.  If she is married with kids too, then she is as big of a POS as the husband is. 
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