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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m guessing the issue for the op isn’t the in-laws coming to party. Inviting them means they are spending the night or several nights and she probably doesn’t want to deal with that when she is already dealing with the birthday party. [/quote] Husband should invite his parents. His parents should understand everything shouldered by their daughter-in-law and understand their son is doing a bare minimum. They should also stay in a hotel. This is what good family dynamics look like.[/quote] So everyone else gets an official invite and his parents just get the after thought call? Come on. Way to make your guests feel like 2nd class citizens. Were you raised in a barn?[/quote] The guests are the kids friends. The grandparents, unless they are helping with fetching the cake, ordering and getting the pizza, either lighting the candles or videorecording for the parents, cleaning up, washing the plates, maintaining order, unless they are truly helping, they tag alongs and just another burden.[/quote] How out of control are your parties? Have it at a venue like normal a normal person. Home parties are the worst.[/quote]
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