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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a husband that I get frustrated with because if I ask him to do something, he says he will do it. But he leaves it off till the very last minute and there is always a problem that comes up, which makes it stressful. This happens every time. 
Car needs to he serviced. He does it the wed before we are heading out on a trip (on Saturday). Of course there will be a part that needs to be ordered and car won't be ready. 
Kids forms are due for sport/activity. Two days before its due, contacts dr office to complete
 Dr office needs 3 days to give back.

Why doesn't he take care of anything timely.

If I suggest target dates, he just says yes, sure. And then doesnt do them.

How am I supposed to function? 
I do 90% of all the things, because I cant depend on him. [/quote]

Maybe switch up the division of labor so that he is responsible for teaching your kids to play the game and getting them to practice, and you are in charge of getting the forms and making sure they have the right equipment.

I don’t know.  That’s how we do it in my house.  
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