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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sheesh, take accountability and authorship of your life. Either go to couples therapy or divorce.[/quote] We are in couples therapy, and all we talk about is him. I can't get a word in about my own experience of our marriage. We are going to end up divorced. And I am finally taking authorship of my own life in the interim. I just booked a 4-night solo vacation at a luxury hotel, and it feels really, really good. I'm not doing anything for his family anymore, and I never should have in the first place. Nor am I doing other things for him. I guess he hasn't cared for a long time, but I don't either now. I am taking care of myself and, by extension, my kids. They need a happy mom. [/quote] It sounds like you have a terrible therapist, based on this and your earlier response. Find a therapist you like. Or, if you're going to get divorced do it now. Take back your agency. You're acting like a martyr/victim. [/quote]
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