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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NTA. If you have agreed to the $500 limit and used it in your marriage successfully both ways, this was sneaky and inappropriate of her. I’m sorry, OP. FWIW our rule is similar (though $100) and it’s never been an issue at any point to run child expenses by each other before spending. Kid is a tween now and it just requires a 5 minute conversation. Your spouse was selfish. (And also kind of dumb to spend $6600 on furniture that will only be used a few years, even if you can afford it). Alas, what’s done is done. Better to sit down and discuss how to adjust things for future decisions so you are both satisfied.[/quote] This works only if your spouse generally says yes unless they have a reason to say no. OP said that he would have told her not to buy it even though he doesn’t know or care about baby furniture, they could afford the expense, and he has no other plans for the money. [/quote]
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