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[quote=Anonymous] I let my child make her own decisions based on what coach she wants to play for, what league she wants to play in, and how much she likes the team (how nice and accepting they are, how hard they work, etc). My child is a young adult with thoughts and preferences.  And I accept those even if it means an inconveniences for me.  There are plenty of skilled, hard working, intelligent, and thoughtful girls making their own decisions, to determine what is right for them.  Stay or leave.  Sometimes that means leaving when the adults running a club make decisions for them that are not aligned with what they want.

Take a breath.  Reevaluate.  Just because a kid decides to leave a club does not mean they are not skilled or their parents are making a decision for them.  Accept that the child made an informed decision about what was best for them.  The clubs aren’t looking out for their interests, so they why should they stick with a club that doesn’t?  Just to soothe your ego?  Grow up and stop blaming everyone else for your decision to stay.  Be happy with your decision and let everyone else be happy with theirs.[/quote]

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