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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ben Affleck has issues.
You just feel bad for her. However narcissistic you think she is. You can't change a man so don't waste your time. If he wants to change, he will but no other person can change a man. Men look for what is now. They don't look at the potential. Women tend to look for the man's potential. That means you want to change that person. Isn't going to work out like that.

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Why did he seek her out in the first place?

He wanted to bail on Garner sooner but he had kids with her so he says he felt  “trapped” in the marriage .

He should’ve been a bachelor like Leonardo DiCaprio.

He sounds like he was sent to the gallows every time he talks about the past marital /family life.  He made it sound like jail.  Now he seems to love  his kids now that they’re older and can interact with him, but he made the younger years with Garner seem
Like this unbearable grind.

Last I checked he wasn’t on the table pushing out three kids and serving their every whim for years.

He is just an Ahole. I don’t think any relationship will make him happy. He wants to be in Vegas and just have cheap thrills for life. He doesn’t want the commitment of marriage to one person [/quote]

+1. Total insensitive dbag.[/quote]

It’s all about him. Mother , ex, and potential ex all circling the wagon to make sure he doesn’t fall off one.

Addicts always blame others. He blamed Garner for his alcoholism .

My guess is he took on lots of his dads demons. His dad bailed on marriage ans family and decided gambling and drinking was more worthwhile .

His dad was apparently a brilliant playwright and descendant of poet William Faulkner but with that  intellectualism apparently comes from a lineage of substance abuse and depression. His paternal grandmother died of suicide from gunshot wound just like Britney Spears paternal grandmother. His paternal uncle was also an alcoholic just like his father (very similar to Britney’s family)  . The uncle also died by suicide gunshot wound . He also has a paternal aunt that suffered from heroin addiction .

I hate to be mean here but maybe J Los Latin godmother psychic was on to something when she said she and Ben shouldn’t marry or have kids .

J Lo should realize she’s the prize not him. It doesn’t matter that he won two Oscars. She should stop believing what people say about her lack of talent or worth in Hwood. I don’t think we will ever see another movie star turned pop star as big as her or another big Latin star like her or one from the Bronx . She won’t get her flowers till she’s dead but if you ask me, she has a far superior standing than most in Hwood because she’s still making top movies even if they’re on Netflix at age 50+ Most actresses aren’t relevant at 50+ and most popstars don’t perform at the Super Bowl at 50. Michael died at that same age preparing to perform . It’s not easy. She makes it look easy because she has the discipline [/quote]

A woman who's.been married and.divorced 4 times,  broke off an engagement to ARod before quickly marrying Ben Affleck, and began her succession of men with Puff Diddy Daddy is not "a prize." Experienced, yes.[/quote]

Her work ethic and legendary status is what makes her a prize . Like I said, I don’t think we’ll ever see a movie star /pop star combination again like that. They don’t make stars like J Lo anymore that are singer/dancer/actress combos and business Moguls.

Gaga came close but cracked after five years of work.

J Lo is a machine to still do what she does at almost 60 and she’s not the work of plastic surgeons, stage parents or  powerful mogul husbands like  Mariah Carey or Salma Hayek .

She will survive another divorce. Ben is the one who needs the help and is seemingly crumbling when it should be her [/quote]

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