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[quote=Anonymous]I'm in the divorce process now and my lawyer advised not putting hard college requirements into our agreement. We have the same salaries, so we'd make the same commitments. She said she's seen too many cases where circumstances change and her client can't afford the required contribution and their ex holds them to it. Language about contributing is fine, but you need an out so you're not automatically on the hook for things you can't afford. And absolutely you need language about how existing college savings will be used so he can't transfer them to a subsequent child. Stay strong OP. I'm 9 months in, and while I still have moments of extreme sadness, there is a lot less stress in my life. There's a freedom in not being tied to someone else's whims and demands that has its own beauty. [/quote]
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