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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I don't know if it is a separation with a 100% certainty of divorce.  He's moving out, and I'm going to operate as though we are working towards a divorce in 12 months.

I'm able to keep it very civil, and it has helped immensely that the boys seem to respond well to that.  I like talking about how cool their room is going to be at Daddy's house, because they seem excited to share that with me.  I like telling my older son that it is very nice and thoughtful that he wanted to sleep next to Daddy last night, because he worried Daddy was lonely down on the pull out sofa.  In my mind, of course, I was thinking "Your father is a cheating dog who deserves to be lonely forever." but instead, I said that it was very thoughtful and that I'm sure Daddy appreciated it, and that I was proud of him for thinking of his Daddy.

I'm not telling the husband, at least not yet.  I did send him a friend request on facebook.  He's clearly active on facebook, and he'll recognize my last name.  if he wants to talk, he knows how.  I'm leaving it at that.

I just can't wait for my STBXH to be gone.  it will be so much easier when i don't have to see him every day.  I'm ready to move on.

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Sending you a hug, OP.  You sound like a good egg and a great parent.  Hang in there, take care of you and your boys.  You'll get through this time.[/quote]

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