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[quote=Anonymous]This thread is nuts.  For the PP with the abusive ex-husband, I am very sorry for all you went through.  But that doesn't make it right to cheat with a married man.  First, even if the spouse is crazy, the spouse doesn't deserve betrayal and deception.  Everyone deserves honesty.  Second, cheating on a bitter or crazy person will make that person -you guessed it- more bitter and crazy.  That is bad for that person, that person's kids, and, ultimately, you.  Finally, if you have been through so much, I think you should try to work on yourself and healing without someone else and certainly without engaging more extreme drama.  Peace is a good thing.

I just don't understand the vitriol for the allegedly bad, cheated on spouse.  The cheaters didn't need to cheat and make that situation worse.  If you hate your spouse or think they are terrible people, the thing to do is leave, honorably.  Not cheat. And the OW or OM really have some nerve making in the people they hurt and talking about how horrible they are.  You could have avoided all that by not cheating with their spouses.  [/quote]

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