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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We aren't married yet. I left my spouse, and then he left his wife. It's better than I imagined it would be. Some days we do nothing at all. He sits on the couch working, and I'm curled up next to him reading.
I like that he comes home to me, and I have dinner ready. I like that he does my laundry. I like that we spend time with friends together and go on road trips without his phone blowing up. My blood pressure is much better. I enjoy pillow talk. I like constantly hearing "we". I'm happy to have finally met his family. The best thing is he doesn't go back to her at night.[/quote]

THIS is what we all want. Well, OK, this is what I want.[/quote]

But wasn't this how it was at first with your ex? That's what I don't get. Relationships are always great at the beginning. [/quote]

Yep. Every relationship is sparkles and rainbows in the beginning.  I believe most people get lazy the longer they are together.   I have a family member that left his wife for his AP.  They've been married for years but he confided in my mother that he's only sticking around because he's too old to move on and doesn't want to deal with a second divorce.  They have the same marriage issues that he had with the first wife. And his kids hate her with a passion. [/quote]

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