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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I thought this was really interesting OP!  My oldest DD is about to start PK3 at a DCPS, where there is at least a chance she may be the only white kid.  (We plan on moving out of the DC area sometime in the next couple of years; so the longterm value of the feeder schools isn't an issue for us, and the early childhood program seems amazing.  But do you have any advice for connecting with other parents and students as the "only"?[/quote]

Yes. Talk to them! Your child's teacher is your ally in this. If your child talks about a specific friend often, ask your child's teacher for the contact information of that child's parents. Invite them to a playdate. We started at parks that were near the school, which felt like good neutral ground. As we have gotten to know each other better, we go to each other's houses. To the extent that your school has a parent organization, participate in it, but keep in mind that the PTA isn't the only way that parents contribute to or socialize in the school. I've probably had as many great interactions with parents waiting to pick up DD from school or dropping off in the morning as I have at any actual school-sponsored event. [/quote]

To add to this, say good morning, say hi at pickup. Ask people which child is theirs when you're both looking at the artwork hanging in the halls, etc. it took me some time to break through. Go to the BBQ or other events if there are any, volunteer in the classroom and get to know your child's classmates. I was able to volunteer twice a month last year just for 3 months and I started getting hugs from all my child's classmates almost every day at drop off and pick up. When that happens, the parents are nice to you as well.

It took time for me to breakthrough, but it can be done and don't give up. [/quote]

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