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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op,

You are correct, but people who are entitled are not going to admit the are entitled.

There was a whole thread on men claiming they can't function at work (aka, the fog) if they go 5 day, 7 days, 10 days without sex.

It is pathetic.

Many say they will chest if they don't "get it enough" or if they are getting it "the sex lacks passion".

Pain and simple it is emotional anise to tell a spouse put out or I will cheat and the cheating will be your fault because you suck in bed or don't give it up enough... Or my favorite, you put the kids first and I feel devalued.

Cheaters/entitled to sex posters are going to roast you, call you cold, dumb, too young to understand. But you are correct.

It is so much easier to lower a libido than to increase one, but men would never agree, they just blame their wives as if they purposely are denying sex"

So many people go without sex for various reasons... Deployed, illness, etc... It's not a basic need.[/quote]

I can never understand why, if sex is so unimportant, the spouse with a low sex drive finds it so *incredibly* important that their spouse not have sex with anyone else. It's either important or it's not. If not, then let your spouse go out and get a bit on the side on the weekend. Like golf.[/quote]

I gave my spouse permission to get as much sex as he wanted, wherever he wanted to get it.  He still whined and bitched at me about not having sex with him.  He didn't want to put in the effort to go out and date when I was at home and "should be available and willing."  Sex at my house is just an unpleasant chore that I do to keep the peace.  [/quote]

Ugh. I feel sorry for both of you. [/quote]

Thanks. I offered to divorce him with a very generous, non-traumatic financial settlement (I have a great job and don't need money), but he really wants to stay married until the kids are grown. I think we're just hanging in there until the youngest kid is out of the house. [/quote]

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