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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]

I think I've come to the conclusion that the male posters here that REALLY harp on this issue either

1) legitimately have a wife who doesn't care and should get divorce
2) resent their wife so much that she can tell and therefore doesn't want to have sex and they should get divorced (or try therapy if you think you still have some room in  your heart).

For the average guy in a dry spell with his wife I think a lot of this advice would work great. To a guy in a year+ long sex freeze out who spends his days hating his wife and plotting his completely justified affair? Just do everyone a favor and realize your situation is toxic and stop trying to project that onto all women. [/quote]

Not sure where I fit here:

-I think my wife cares. 
-In a 10+ year dry spell (once or twice a month for pretty much this entire period).
-I'm not happy about the situation but am pretty sure that my wife's reaction to me isn't some reaction to resentment. 
-My wife's body just doesn't react sexually to me the way she and I would like it to. 
-Raising the issue makes her feel pressured and, counter-productively, even less sexual. 
-Not raising the issue makes her (so far as I can tell) ignore or forget that it's a problem. [/quote]

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