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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women want to desire sex with their long term relationship. But their bodies often just aren't wired that way. [/quote]

Are you a woman? I am really sick of having my sexuality mansplained to me in this thread. [/quote]

Not the PP here.

So womansplain it to us.  Just be prepared for skepticism if you bring up choreplay or some other suggestion that the burden is on the husband to bring back a wife's waning sex drive. [/quote]

So if a woman reiterates the same points that all other women make (which would imply they are telling the truth) than its not good enough but men rationalizing away all of those women's responses and creating their own narrative is legitimate? I have posted long posts in this very thread explaining how I personally work, I'm not going to repeat myself.

I think I've come to the conclusion that the male posters here that REALLY harp on this issue either

1) legitimately have a wife who doesn't care and should get divorce
2) resent their wife so much that she can tell and therefore doesn't want to have sex and they should get divorced (or try therapy if you think you still have some room in  your heart).

For the average guy in a dry spell with his wife I think a lot of this advice would work great. To a guy in a year+ long sex freeze out who spends his days hating his wife and plotting his completely justified affair? Just do everyone a favor and realize your situation is toxic and stop trying to project that onto all women. [/quote]

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