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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is interesting because a year or so ago I posted asking women about how they felt being groped and pawed at by their DHs, and specifically used the example of this occurring at the sink while DW is doing dishes.  Many women replied that they loved it and would drop what they are doing and get it on right then and there.  The bottom line with OP's situation is that she has lost sexual desire and while DH's approach might not be the best, I don't think they would be having more sex if he stopped the aggressive advances and tried a different technique.  OP is able to avoid accountability for her loss of desire by blaming DH's approach.[/quote]

Exactly, it's not disgusting. This is not a drunk stranger at a bar, but your hot husband desiring you. I love when my husband does this.

Have you had a health checkup lately? Does premature ovarian failure run in your family?
Do you have regular periods? How is your thyroid functioning?[/quote]

You love it. But she doesn't. She's angry at her DH and no chemical adjustment is going to fix that until they talk things out. I'm nowhere near menopause, and understand exactly what OP is going through. It is emotional, expressed physically.[/quote]

You say that but she didn't. She should speak for herself.
[b]Having no sex drive at all is not normal at all, tired or not[/b].[/quote]

THere are MILLIONS of women with no sex drive.  Have you read about so many in sex-less marriages.  It's TOTALLY normal.  It is the male driven society that wants women to believe it needs to be fixed so they can get laid more often.[/quote]
And if you actually read you'll see sexless marriages are not normal - in fact it's only 10-12% that are.  To add, experts agree it's unhealthy for a marriage and will lead to problems.

I hope you aren't married and if you are you should divorce your husband so he can be with someone who loves him and wants to be intimate with him.  You should die fat and alone with your cats[/quote]

Many single women love being alone enjoying their kids and grand kids. As you saw from the dog thread most women would choose their pets over their dh. If a dh views marriage solely for his sexual needs he can hit the road, or teach his hands some new tricks.[/quote]

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