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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why should OP be happy and thankful that SIL decided to act like a decent person only now that she's gotten what she wanted?[/quote] Because she's compassionate enough to understand that her ILs have gone through a painful period in their life and they are fortunately ready to move on?[/quote] Because forgiveness and optimism makes for a happier life than resentment and pessimism. Because if we ended every relationship once something went wrong we'd have no relationships at all. Because although the in laws handled it poorly, it sounds like OP's DH compounded the problem. Because friendliness is more fun than drama. Because the children took no part in this situation and would enjoy having a cousin. Because this isn't middle school. [/quote]
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