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Start with the fact that I was told no children were allowed at their wedding.  That is why I did not go.  They show me the wedding video later on and her two young cousins, who were my age, were the ring barer and flower girl.  His wife did not want me at the wedding because I would have taken away some of my father attention from her day.   Then once they were married, she wanted to live closer to her home so they moved back to where my Dad is originally from.  Then once they had kids, my father would only see me when she said it was okay.  The times I did go up, if she wanted to go out or had plans for the two of them, I would get left with a babysitter.  So she came first always and my father went right along with it.   So that is how my father prioritized his second wife over me.  They eventually divorced.[/quote]

But aren't you even more furious with your dad? I have a similar tale. Wasn't invited to the wedding, rarely invited to their house, not on the photo christmas card (but half sibilings were), no photos of me in the house, etc. My SM is a really nasty person. That said, I blame my dad- not her. He didn't put his foot down, he wasn't willing to fight the fight, he wasn't willing to forsake the pain that comes with having an argument for his kid. The fault is his, in my eyes anyhow.

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