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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it seems to me that after this whole thread you are going to agree to alternate. BUT in your mind you are the victim here, and you will nurse this grudge and blame and blame and blame your sister, saying she is the one who is playing the victim, etc. etc. It will poison Christmases for you. Enjoy that bitter poison. It seems very much in keeping with the spirit of the season--you know, generosity, kindness, Christ and forgiveness, etc. Of course, the other alternative is that you could just CALL YOUR SISTER, listen to her thoughtfully and respectfully, ask her what her concerns are, and see if you can work out a compromise that really and truly makes you both happy. But, if you try that, you don't get to feel all wronged and aggrieved and self-righteous. How long are you and your sister going to carry on these destructive patterns? Is this what you want to teach your own kids? Merry Christmas. [/quote]
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