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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, what is stopping you from asking your mother and your sister directly what they want? You're utterly convinced you're right and your mom will agree with you, so what is there to lose?[/quote]

I am definitely NOT convinced my mom will agree with me. I am convinced she would be fine with us all there if my sister was. I don't feel like having a conversation with my mom about my "poor sister." I would like my mom to have the guts to say to me, "you can't come for Christmas because your sister doesn't want you to." And if that is not the reason, I'd like to know what is the reason.[/quote]

OP, is anyone actually suggesting that you can't come to Christmas at all, or would it be acceptable to take turns staying at a hotel? Either way, I'm going to go back to my comment about being someone people can talk to. You are so hostile to people here questioning your assumptions about what's going on, it's no wonder no one wants to talk to you frankly.[/quote]

I am trying to preserve the magical Christmases of my childhood for my own children. No part of which took place in a hotel! Seriously whoever keeps suggesting this can stop. If the aforementioned magical Christmas is going to be dismantled, I do not need to sit in a hotel while it happens. The damage is done at that point. Do all of you really have Christmas traditions that can be replicated in a Courtyard Marriott?!? Because I will be cold and dead before my children hang their stockings up there.[/quote]

My LORD.  You are a drama queen.   FFS, lady, you need to dial it down about 10 notches.[/quote]

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