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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread makes me so mad.

I don't care what the bratty boys were doing. They are family now, and you can't just excommunicate them.
They matter, and the 3 girls matter, and the grandfather matters.

Families figure out how to accommodate everyone, even when it's challenging. That is what families do.

I am absolutely sickened by this thread. 
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If you read this thread and the other you would see that there has been so much stress for months and months trying to accommodate this situation.

What would you do if you were so stressed out from trying everything and then have this happen. SIL agreed and then turned around and flipped out.

[b]If the grandfather matters, shouldn't he be allowed to have a stress free 75th birthday?[/b][/quote]

Not if it means pretending that family members don't exist for convenience' sake.

And the SIL was probably shocked about the OP's request. She probably didn't know what to say and felt embarrassed and humiliated.

What the OP did is honestly unforgivable. [/quote]

You obviously haven't read it then.

No one is pretending the two boys don't exist. They were asked to behave at an important family event and[b] the mother agreed they couldn't/wouldn't and said it was best they not go.[/b]

How can she be shocked? This has been going on for months, including fights with her spouse about it.

[b]Unforgivable is allowing your children to destroy family events[/b], to bully and physically harm young girls and to lash out at the only person left even trying in this situation.[/quote]

OP, stop sock-puppeting your thread as though people agree with you.

We've read your equally horrible initial thread.  The mother didn't agree to anything.  She suggested they play on their iPads and you BULLIED her into having them stay home.

You are destroying family events b/c these kids are now part of your family.  (Poor them.)  Also, farting and burping in church isn't a mortal sin.  God forgives them.

You are nasty through and through and have zero moral ground to stand on.[/quote]

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