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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait so this girl tells you she doesn't play games, but she makes up an excuse on the spot.  And avoids you via texting vs saying hey listen this is not working anymore?

Ladies I may be wrong here, but to me this girl is playing games herself.[/quote]

Yeah, exactly! I hate playing games. It also sucks if you're not sure whether the other person is really invested or not, so why, if you've made up your mind, would you unnecessarily say "I'm not interested in you that way."  It seems harsh to say so unprompted.

I've had men I've dated in the past also prefer to remain evasive. I figured out they weren't interested when maybe I was, but I'm glad it was early on in the dating cycle (dates 2-4) that they subtly signaled "nope" and I could receive that signal.  On the other hand, the dude whom I eventually married was completely honest and said right off: "Wow, I think I really like you a LOT."  Because the feeling was mutual, it was a great relief to not have to play these polite little games of not saying exactly what you feel and trying to figure out what was going on in the other person's head.  I was very impressed by his courage!  (Though maybe my big doe-eyed pupils and ridiculous giddiness gave me away: love at second sight. :))[/quote]

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