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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agree with most of the immediate PPs. Everyone, male and female, is entitled to have as much sex as they want with as many partners as they want, and should be able to do so without being shamed. The way I read the title of the thread is that OP wishes women would demand more in a RELATIONSHIP before getting intimate. That is, if what the woman wants is a relationship, not a casual hookup, or friends with benefits scenario, it's generally a best practice to actually get to know the person and that they want they same thing (demanding a little more time and commitment) before becoming intimate, so as to avoid disappointment. 
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This liberal nonsense that you can't "shame" anyone for being slutty is wrong.  Of course people are free to shame sluts.  There are good reasons why promiscuity is looked down upon.  It is immoral. It won't help your physical or mental health. It won't help you build a quality relationship with a man.  It doesn't help you build a family.  The "silent majority" and wise people understand this. [/quote]

The idea that anyone should be free to have as many sex partners as you want without being judged or shamed is part of the lie. Of course you will be judged. And shamed. Sorry, but there are consequences to actions.[/quote]

How does me having 500 sexual partners impact your life in any way?  Where the hell do you get off on "shaming.?" It's totally ok to say that not for you and you'd rather have something different, but you absolutely do not get to shame me for it.  You really need to look inward and figure out where the anger is coming from.[/quote]

I'm the first quoted poster above, and I agree with the poster immediately above 100% (and, as I expressed in my most immediate post, I'm actually (I think) quite conservative, despite the 'liberal' label that's been tossed on many quotes of my post. Maybe I'm more liberal than I thought.

Yes, people can choose to be in (or not be in) a relationship with anyone they deem has had too many or too few sexual partners, that is their right just as it is their right to not be in a relationship with someone whose politics or religion or career choices don't align with theirs. That's personal choice, or personal judgement even, but both are an individual's right.

"Shaming" is something different - it's more than making a choice about who you'll date - it's casting aspersions on someone, at its worst, publicly or online, and even in this day and age, it still only happens to women where promiscuity is concerned. Occasionally men are shamed, but it's for cheating (a la Tiger Woods) not for being sexual at all. It kind of blows my mind that with the recent incidents of online teen 'slut shaming' and resulting suicides that anyone thinks it's acceptable, or beneficial to society to 'shame' people(women) for their sexual behavior (absent cheating and the knowing spread of STDs, both of which, I agree, are shameful). [/quote]

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