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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agree with most of the immediate PPs. Everyone, male and female, is [b]entitled to have as much sex as they want with as many partners as they want, and should be able to do so without being shamed.[/b] The way I read the title of the thread is that OP wishes women would demand more in a RELATIONSHIP before getting intimate. That is, if what the woman wants is a relationship, not a casual hookup, or friends with benefits scenario, it's generally a best practice to actually get to know the person and that they want they same thing (demanding a little more time and commitment) before becoming intimate, so as to avoid disappointment. 
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But you must agree that anyone can step away from a relationship with someone who has had many partners without being shamed for wanting nothing to do with that person. [/quote]

I'm the poster you're quoting, and absolutely, I agree with what you said as well.

It's funny so many other posters after you quoted what I said as liberal, when personally, I'm actually quite conservative (both sexually and politically) but I am a huge believer in equal rights (not men being lauded as 'ladies men' and women being derided as 'sluts' for doing the same exact thing), and society not getting up in the business of consenting adults. I'm a woman, and personally don't want a male partner who has slept with what in my mind is "too many" people - but that's because I think my life experiences and desires wouldn't line up with such a man, not because I would be ashamed to be with him.

My point was simply that I didn't think OPs post deserved to get attacked on its face when she said that women looking for relationships should demand more before becoming intimate. I think people of both genders who are looking for relationships would do themselves a service if they demanded more time and some level of commitment before engaging sexually. [/quote]

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