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Sure. After all these situations with person A and person B you are still unable to define truly what clear consent means. And you won't be able to, human interaction is complicated and nuanced. [b]Accoding to you, many memorable sexual experiences I had because I did not say explicitly yes I want to have sex, I was raped. [/b]Sad truth is in this culture there are women who enthusiastically consent and then regret it after, how can anybody be a hundred percent sure?

There was an e patience in my college dorm where an athletes ex girlfriend showed up at his doorstep wearing lingerie to seduce him. Later after that they did not get back together and she accused him of rape that night. He got suspended and stripped from the team. Incidents like that happen, and diminish the validity of rape where a woman is overpowered in the face of strong resistance, be the rapist a stranger or someone she knows. [/quote]

Nobody is saying that only verbal consent constitutes consent. There are many different ways to show consent. Everybody who has participated in sexual activities with enthusiastic consent knows this, as does everybody who has participated in sexual activities with an enthusiastically consenting partner.

However, I agree that, if Person A is not 100% certain that Person B is consenting, then Person A should not participate in sexual activities with Person B. Or, if that's too technical and complicated: only have sex with people who want to have sex with you.[/quote]

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