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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Not the PP, but what you've said is truly astounding to me. "Nannies impact a very small segment of society... a nanny's contribution is less valuable to society than the contributions of a lawyer or doctor." This is the person you've entrusted your own children to. The person who is supposed to keep them safe from harm, every minute that you're not with them. I'm appalled at your complete lack of empathy towards your own children. I guess anyone with a pulse and a driver's license will do just fine. [/quote] No matter how much I love my children and want them to be well taken care of, a pediatric cardiac surgeon who saves ten lives a day, every day, is objectively more important to society than my nanny. It has nothing to do with how much empathy I have for my children. It has everything to do with recognizing there are other things - besides my children - that are important to this world. If my nanny does a mediocre job, the impact of that is two children who had mediocre care. The impact of a surgeon not doing his job is ten dead children a day. I think we can all do the math. [/quote] Maybe you should "Lean In" as much as you want because it does not seem you really want to be with your kid. It is ok. Some women are not the maternal type. I hope though that you have a high powered career like Sheryl, because leaning in when you are making a pittance and when your salary is needed at home, is not "leaning in" - it is your constraint. That is then another thread.[/quote]
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