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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I think what I'm saying is being ugly or plain or really, really average is just another thing. It's not a negative thing if I don't make it a negative thing. I'm not beautiful and it's just a simple fact. It's like saying that I was born in June, that I have a college degree, that my favorite color is green. It's a neutral fact. It's not damaging to my spirit or whatever, that's a bunch of baloney. Now I can appreciate that others on here are really hurting and my heart goes out to them. But I'm not hurting much over my looks. Yeah, it sucks being ignored in stores and it sucks that I've never once had a guy buy me a drink, that I've never had the experience of going out and leaving my wallet at home knowing that random guys would buy me drinks all night. But I'm married so that doesn't even matter at this point, really. It also sucks that I'm not independently wealthy and that I don't have unlimited vacation time. It's just another fact of life. We have to take the good with the bad.[/quote] I feel the same way. I've never had someone buy me drinks or gotten anything for free. Doesn't bother me. I'm a 5 out of 10 although right now 2 months post partum I'm probably a 3 or 4. I have a friend who is less attractive than me (I'd say ugly but that's mean and untrue). She's probably a 3 out of 10. But she has the best personality and it more than makes up. I met her in high school and we reconnected through facebook. No one in high school ever made fun of her. She was really into sports and could talk to the guys and she was super nice to the girls. No matter how hard I try, I will never have her level of out-goingness (if that's a word). Her personality more than made up for her looks. I'm quite introverted. She's now married to a handsome guy, has two adorable (and handsome) children and she and her husband own a successful business.[/quote]
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