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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, what I want is for him to meet my needs because he loves me and wants me to be happy, not throw some crumbs at my needs in order to get sex. Believe me, there's nothing loving about that.

I read this thread and I can't help but wonder why you all want more sex with your wives. If it's just about orgasms, you can get some online porn and get yourself off. Is it about wanting intimacy with your wives? I supposed it might be, but it doesn't sound like it when it seems like you resent the hell out of being asked to do anything for her to actually foster that intimacy.[/quote]

It is about far more than a simple orgasm- at least for me.  I love the feeling of intimacy with my wife.  I love feeling her body against mine.  I love the arousal I feel when we do certain, specific things together (keeping this non-explicit).  From reading your posts- you've got quite a bit of anger and resentment going on.  Seriously.  Maybe your husband only wants to get his rocks off and use you as a receptacle.  But don't project YOUR shit on the rest of mankind.  Please.

As far as "throwing crumbs"- if your marriage is unsatisfying for both of you, maybe a good first step is throwing a few crumbs each others' way.  It seems to me- and this is an assumption- that you expect your husband to completely change the way he thinks about you and change his entire motivation for sex before you'll consider changing the way you view sex and intimacy.  You've said that he will give you a hug when he gets home and holds your hand while watching t.v. yet you know he'll want sex later so you can't enjoy the attention intended to meet your needs.  Maybe you need to fix what's inside of YOUR head instead of his.  [/quote]

I didn't project my shit on the rest of mankind, I was addressing the people here who say they want more sex with their wives, but seem to resent the idea of her needs.[/quote]

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