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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow...what the heck people. My husband and I are not well off at all due to a lot of medical issues we are having. The bills are killing us. I wouldn't wish for anything else but money for our wedding. We could really use the help. And true friends of ours would understand that - it's our special day. Gifts should be something we really actually need. If money is what's most needed at that point, then money it is. Even though I think one could let guests know something like this in a different manner than putting "No boxed gifts" on the invite...asking for money isn't a bad thing. To some people financial gifts could be life savers. Unbelievable how judgmental some people are here. Guess I'm just glad none of you folks are anywhere near us. Yuck![/quote]

If you are so hard up for money, forego the wedding and go to the courthouse. That is the responsible thing to do, not spend money on some wedding. [/quote]

Excuse me...? I can not have a wedding because I'm not a millionaire? I don't have to spend thousands on a wedding. You have NO IDEA what you are even talking about but boy are you judgmental! I can not have a beautiful day with my friends and family because I can't afford a 50k wedding? That's just messed up. [b]How about a small wedding, at a private location, with only people we know personally and where everything is homemade by the people who attend?[/b] Never heard of that I guess. I guess people in your world aren't allowed to live through hardship and still try to have a good time from time to time...especially on their wedding day. If I knew money is what a couple needs most then money is what they get.

You know why? Because giving a gift is about the recipient. Not about myself. You give whatever the recipient most needs or want. Not what YOU enjoy giving. That's called being selfless and caring more about the person you are giving something to than about your own wants and needs.[/quote]

So in addition to attending your wedding and giving you a gift (cash), I am supposed to make food for it too?

Seriously?[/quote]

BYOB!

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Bring Your Own Buffet? [/quote]

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